Time Commitment
Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 11:25:05 -0400
From: "Laurie DeMott" demotlj"at"infoblvd.net
To: "BLUEBIRD-L" BLUEBIRD-L"at"cornell.edu
Subject: Being nosy
Here's a question you can all ignore if you want to but I'm
just curious.
I've done a lot of reading about bluebirds over the past ten
years and all the books say that you shouldn't put up a bluebird
house unless you can monitor it. I have a few houses around
my yard but as the trees grow up I've been thinking that there
are several fields nearby that would make better sites; unfortunately
as a single working mother, I don't have time to hike around
monitoring boxes.
So my nosy question is -- are those of you who actively monitor
trails all retired and if not, how do you find the time to keep
track of more than one or two houses?
I hope that's not too personal of a question for the list,
but I assume if it is, you can just ignore it and/or delete
it.
Laurie DeMott
Alfred, NY
Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 12:45:42 -0500
From: "Mary Beth Roen" mbroen"at"hotmail.com
To: demotlj"at"infoblvd.net, BLUEBIRD-L"at"cornell.edu
Subject: Re: Being nosy
Dear Laurie,
I monitor an Eastern Bluebird trail of 26 boxes around our
farm of 75 acres. It takes me about one hour per week to walk
around the trail and check the boxes. Time is of short supply
to me as well. I consider it healthful exercise to take this
walk, and just budget the time to do it. Sometimes I go very
early in the morning, before the family obligations begin. If
your children are old enough, bring them along! What better
way to instill the love of Bluebirds in your children! You could
even pull them in a wagon if they get tired walking. If you
can't bring them along, and can't leave them home alone, I would
encourage you to find a neighbor or friend who would be willing
to watch them for an hour or two a week so that you can walk
a trail. It is so peaceful and rewarding, that your children
may notice the difference in you when you return!
Best of luck to you!
Mary Roen, River Falls, WI
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Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 13:05:32 -0500
From: Kathleen Oschwald nestbox"at"1starnet.com
To: demotlj"at"infoblvd.net
Cc: Bluebird-L"at"cornell.edu
Subject: Re: Time for monitoring
At 11:25 AM 4/17/01 -0400, you wrote:
Here's a question you can all ignore if you want to but I'm
just curious.
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No, you are not being nosy. This is an important consideration,
and I really respect you for thinking about it before you overwhelm
yourself.
Some of the most active bluebirders on this list have full-time
jobs and families and other activities like gardening in their
lives, so if you schedule it, it can be done. But everyone's
lifestyle does not lend itself to monitoring huge trails.
Since you are concerned about having enough time, start with
a few boxes, as you have done, then just add one or two at a
time. If you find you cannot monitor, or your nestboxes become
house sparrow havens, you can always take them down. Depending
on the age of your children, you could take them with you when
you monitor. They would enjoy sharing an activity with you and
they would learn something.
Kate Oschwald
Sumner, TX
100 mi NE of Dallas
Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 15:53:27 -0400
From: Wendell Long mrsimple"at"go-concepts.com
To: bluebird-L"at"cornell.edu
Cc: WLInst"at"yahoogroups.com
Subject: Bluebirding
That was a good question about How does a single parent find
enough time to do all one wants to do? I have experienced 8
life stages as follows:
1. Single
2. Married without kids
3. Married with kids
4. Single Parent
5. Married with two dogs
6. Married with grand kids
7. Married and bride has bird boxes
8. Retired.
Now when I was single my pockets would jingle but I used credit
cards then.
Now I look forward to the next stage--Retired--Single! The
happiest group of all. I expect to join as soon as Mrs Long
reads this post. But in the meantime someone is seeking the
secret of having enough time for life.
I sought that answer for years and the more I looked the behinder
I got. And the harder it was to find enough time to do all I
needed to do and wanted to do so I gave up a lot of the wanted
to do part of life for others wanted me to do for them.
Then I discovered the secret of the joy of doing what I want
to do. And suddenly life did a 180 for me!
I became a true believer in the fatalist faith. That is all
is pre-planned and whatever happens is meant to be and is for
the best. And since then all my bad luck has turned into something
good. The fear, pain, prison turned into courage, joy and freedom.
It was magic, I could hardly believe it myself. And I started
experiencing the most unusual. I stopped have nightmares which
I had been having since I can remember from age 3. I never met
a person I didn't like since my conversion. Some people even
started liking me. I even read I'm ok you're ok and believed
I had written it years before!
Other dramatic things happened: Planes I leased and cancelled
crashed on the trip I cancelled. Cars wrecked just before I
got to the corner, for I had been delayed in traffic a few minutes,
buildings blew up on the day and hour I was to meet, but I was
laid up sick as a dog and could not get out of bed. Tornadoes
made the building disappear just as I went next door. Best of
all my "youth" returned with no medication.
I became a raconteur, yes a teller of tall tales! But through
all this and much much more my bride continues to walk the bluebird
trail--just because she wants to--even though her energy level
is about 33% and her MS would prefer she add another nap. She
knows I have plans for her when she walks no more. I am going
to the lumber yard and make a flatbed wagon with wheels and
give her two bricks to hold in her hands to push herself and
then we will put the boxes close to the ground where she can
see inside the boxes and again break all the rules.
For if a bluebirder wants to bluebird, there is no stopping
such a want. People do what they want to do and they want to
do what Fate has planned for them to want to do, whether they
want to or not. And it is all meant to be you see?
Wendell Long
Waynesville, Ohio
PS: The ME generation is a different and unrelated subject.
Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 20:26:51 -0700
From: Linda Violett lviolett"at"earthlink.net
To: "bluebird-l"at"cornell.edu" bluebird-l"at"cornell.edu
Subject: Re: Being nosy
Linda Violett - Yorba Linda, Calif.
Laurie, I probably monitor my trail in less time per week than
most people spend watching TV. But I understand your concern.
During my first year as a bluebirder, I worked part time and
thought 17 boxes would keep me plenty busy.
By the second year, the trail grew to 30 boxes but I still
found the time to have picnic lunches on the trail and start
another small trail. By the third year, the trail grew to 40+
boxes and and my job became full time.
You could start with five or 10 boxes your first year (just
for the exercise). Since you are a single parent, a walk around
the trail would provide an excellent opportunity for your family
to connect for an hour or two during the week. Depending on
the age of your child (children), name the boxes and have various
nestbox competitions (first egg, most fledged).
Laurie DeMott wrote:
I've been thinking that there are several fields nearby that
would make
better sites; unfortunately as a single working mother, I don't
have time to
hike around monitoring boxes.
Date: Wed, 18 Apr 2001 09:16:06 -0400
From: "Randy Jones" randyj"at"enter.net
To: demotlj"at"infoblvd.net
Cc: "Listserve" bluebird-L"at"cornell.edu
Subject: Re: Being nosy
I'm retired, but with back problems, find it a "push"
to get around to my 28 nestboxes 1/week. I count on my neighbors
to keep an eye on their boxes (part of the 28-box trail) and
let me know if they see a problem.
Randy Jones
Allentown PA
randyj"at"enter.net
----- Original Message -----
From: "Laurie DeMott" demotlj"at"infoblvd.net
To: "BLUEBIRD-L" BLUEBIRD-L"at"cornell.edu
Sent: Tuesday, April 17, 2001 11:25 am
Subject: Being nosy
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Date: Sun, 22 Apr 2001 18:43:57 -0400 (EDT)
From: Jordan Brooks jb323"at"usa.com
To: BLUEBIRD-L BLUEBIRD-L"at"cornell.edu
Subject: RE: Being nosy
"Laurie DeMott" demotlj"at"infoblvd.net wrote:
I've done a lot of reading about bluebirds over the past ten
years and all the books say that you shouldn't put up a
bluebird house unless you can monitor it. I have a few
houses around my yard but as the trees grow up I've been
thinking that there are several fields nearby that would make
better sites; unfortunately as a single working mother, I
don't have time to hike around monitoring boxes.
So my nosy question is -- are those of you who actively
monitor trails all retired and if not, how do you find
the time to keep track of more than one or two houses?
I'm not a trail monitor but I am a mom with a few nestboxes
and a whole bunch of birdfeeders in the yard and I just wanted
to weigh in on the side of those who encouraged you to get your
kids involved in any monitoring efforts you decide to undertake.
I've got a 2 yr old and a 9 yr old and they're both actively
involved in almost all my backyard birding activities.
Many tasks we adults consider mundane are fun for kids, ya
know. :) For example, my 2 year old has her very own (pint-sized)
watering can that she uses to water the sunflower seedlings
and fill the smallest birdbaths. (We've got a couple of clay
saucers that we use as birdbaths for our smallest inhabitants.)
My 9 year old was thrilled that he now gets to climb on the
stepladder (with me holding it, of course) to re-fill the birdfeeders
I can't reach. They both have a great time transferring mealworms
from one container to another. (Remember when handling bugs
was fun?)
Even if you're not participating in Cornell's Birdhouse Network,
you can download the data sheets and let the kids fill them
out:
http://birds.cornell.edu/birdhouse
I put our Daily Summary Sheets on a clipboard. My youngest
is in charge of carrying the clipboard; the oldest gets to record
the data. Both of them were utterly thrilled the day we discovered
that the six Carolina Chickadee eggs we'd been monitoring had
become six darling little baby birds. Our backyard monitoring
efforts paid an extra bonus this year when my son had to do
a project for his school science fair. Many of the pictures
we took ended up on his display board. It's amazing what kids
will find interesting. The chickadees used a lot of our dog's
fur in their nest as insulation, a fact my son and his classmates
found just fascinating.
If anyone else is interested in this subject, The National
Bird-Feeding Society has put together a great collection of
resource material aimed at kids:
Learning About Backyard Birds
http://www.birdfeeding.org/kids.html
I also recommend the book _Everything You Never Learned About
Birds_ by Rebecca Rupp. Not only does it have lots of hands-on
projects for kids to do, it's exceptionally well-written. (I
had as much fun reading it as my son did.)
--
Jordan central North Carolina
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